Day 4

You know, she is the kind of girls who cannot forego her past. She always feel guilty about what she could not achieve in the past. She feels troubled by what happened in the past. It is like a light kind of trauma. Her characteristics now is derived from what she experienced back then. She is lacked of confidence, always feels insecure. In most of the aspects in life, and especially in social relationship. She doubts her own talent too. She feels miserable about what she could not do in the past. But she can prove to herself that she has some talent. By scientific methods. The crucial point is she must prove to herself. Even though you tell her she is very talented, she does not believe. She only believes in herself. Once herself brings her proofs.

But she could not find proofs for social relationship. She cannot perform experiment, cannot test, cannot get reliable results and analyze. That's why she is always scared of relationship. Scared of human beings. She was hurt considerably deeply (according to her) in the past because she was boycotted. No one liked her. Even when some one liked her, they stopped liking her when they met her friends. Her friends are always popular and she is always lonely. She even did the test by introducing her friends to some one seemingly likes her and waited for results. Most of the time she failed, which is her friends were liked more. So she is convinced that she is unlikable. She even developed the protective wall by stopping her friends meeting her new friends. So that the new friends had no one to compare with and finally she is still liked by the new friends.

So even though now she has a few good friends, she is still scared being boycotted by them. She still worries one day when those good friends meet her friends, they will leave her. You go and tell her you are very cute, very likable and see how she reacts. She will not believe you. To be fair, if her friends are likable, it does not mean that she is less likable. But she does not accept that due to the past incidents. You must tell her that you are likable and your friends are not good. You are better than your friends. Only with that, her test will succeed and she can convince herself that she is a normal girl, an attractive girl. But you will never do that because you are a normal and fair person.